I think the most disrespectful thing that was ever done in my home by a guest in front of me to my child was tell my child that she didn’t have to listen to me because the guest didn’t like my rules for my child. The guest’s husband sat there and said nothing. He just put his head down. Maybe it was out of pure embarrassment of what was said. I don’t know. When my child had a snack, I gave the child a bowl of grapes. The guest stated that because she didn’t like grapes that my child shouldn’t have to eat it. What a bad snack that was and my child should stand up to me and do what she (my child) wants despite what I say. I looked over at the guest who then eyed me with a smirk on her face and I waited until my child left the room to say something.