So my advice is cut back and stop worrying about I wish being a bitch paid the bills shirt. A box or two of Christmas cards will be adequate. And get some nice stamps. No family letters. We lost our 50 year old son-in-law 3 years ago, the next Christmas our newsy daughter included his passing in her Christmas letter. It had been 11 months, everyone knew and we were all trying to make things as easy as possible for the widowed daughter ans her 7 year old girl. Eldest daughter sent the letter to the widowed sister and she showed up at our house with her girl 4 days before Christmas just shattered. This was her second time being widowed. I would say it was the time my sister made me do yard work in nothing but a extra large diaper with 3 folded beach towels inside to bulk it up and then an over sized plastic panties.
The Beatles Abbey Road Santa Christmas shirtAll was going well for the first 90 min. I was told to stay out for 3 hours. Suddenly a car pulls up along side our yard and stops. A woman was driving and motioned me to come over. As I got closer I realized it was the daughter of a neighbor that we are friends with. She is in her 30’s with kids and husband. The neighbors know I have health issues, but don’t know about my intimate relationship with my sister. This was only the 3rd time that I have seen the daughter. When I got to the car window, she asked how I was doing. I said fine. She then asked why I was in the yard, and why only in a monster size diaper. After turning red, I told her my sister has me doing yard work, and I was afraid to tell her about the diapers. She said look, your standing next to me in just those giant diapers, I won’t tell anyone if that’s what your afraid of. I told her I wasn’t so much afraid of that, but what my sister will do if she sees me talking too long to you and not working.